Hello everybody in the house, please I need urgent advice from you all. We are from the North. I am 24 and my girlfriend is 20 and we have been dating for 3 months. I got my dream job making 12 million Naira per year that is approximately 1 million Naira per month, but the company wants me to move to the US. I have accepted this job and it mean I have to relocate to America, I've worked so hard to get this job for over the last 4 years. But I really, really want to be with my lovely girlfriend too. She is currently in the university, extremely intelligent, beautiful and mature (not blinded by love, everybody says that and guys hit on her 24/7). I took her virginity away and we have a really strong connection. We have been communicating every single day, at least twice per day, and we see each other 4-5 times per week. She is currently studying to become a doctor. So, my plan now is to go to to the US, check it out for a few months and see if I like it. Take a flight back to Nigeria and propose to my girl, then get married. The problem with this beautiful plan is that my girl will have to drop out of school, and will not be able to work in the US (spouse VISA), so I'll have to pay all the bills on my own. I am willing to make this sacrifice, she is truly special. If she says no, we move on and that's that I guess. However, what if she says "yes"? Am I asking for trouble? I hope you can share some of your stories/advice with me.