Good day house, please I need serious advice from you all. For 8 months now I have refused to make love to my wife and I have done this to save myself from s.xual diseases because my wife has not been a good wife. There a lot of things that she has been doing that makes me know that she has been cheating on me. The other time, I saw c..dom in her bag, I asked her about it and she said that some Ngo was distributing on the road as they did a walk for HIV, I let that one go. Then she started coming home late, texting and laughing all the time, midnight calls when she thinks I am sleeping and a lot more. The last one I heard her telling the guy on the phone that she had a nice time and she cannot wait to see him again. I knew immediately that she was doing something with another man. I didn't bother confronting her, I just did like I didn't hear her and I started avoiding her and even at that, she has not bothered to ask me why I am avoiding her. She is so okay with it. Which woman is okay with her hubby not making love to her for months? I don't want to sleep with her again until I find out and confirm that she did not slept with other men. Because if she did, she will confess and Cleansing must be performed before I start sleeping with her again. That's the only condition. My question is how will I find out if she had slept with men? and get proof? Pls no insult as you should know that there is no smoke without fire.