My wife is never satisfied with anything I offer her; she always looks for alternative outside. She has a lot of c.nd.ms in her bags and she also receives different calls at midnight. Just last night, she came back home at 11:30pm, when I asked her why she was coming home late, she said that her customers didn't leave the bar early and she couldn't chase them out. I didn't argue much with her, I let her do what she wanted only for me to check her bag later and I found a man's used c.nd.m in it. This is the first time I am seeing this, it is usually new ones. When I saw it I was disgusted and I confronted her about it but I swear she acted like she has never seen a c.nd.m before in her life. She said I am accusing her of infidelity just because she came back home late. She totally changed the whole thing on me. It was yesterday that for the first time, I cursed the day I met her. Despite her waywardness, I have never beaten for once. This is a woman I have lived with for 11 years and have three children with but I have never been enough for her. She complains about everything I do. My own wife called her mother this morning and told her I always accuse her of wearing trousers and also beat her anytime I feel she is receiving men’s call, that I am so troublesome that I fight her anytime I see her going out in trousers that even my elder sister beats her. She went as far as telling her that ever since she gave birth me I have been accusing her of adultery. Her mother said I am a disgrace of a husband and that if I ever lay my hands on her again, that she will curse me and send thugs to beat me up. Please house, help me o, how do I go about this?