Hello house, I am new here, please I need your advice on what to do please. I am 24 years old married with five children. There is so much going on in my life right now but I don't know if I want to share it all in one post. The thing is my wife is in love with me and another man. She has not had an affair with this man, apart from text messages. But it has torn her apart for three months. It has almost but not quite wrecked us and our family. I accept that she does love this man, he is not a bad person and he is divorced. I don't have money to care for our children so I understand why she would want to leave me for him but she also doesn't want to because of our children. In order to save our marriage, we have agreed between the three of us, (that is me, her and the other man) a contract where she stays with me for 4 days a week and him for the other 3 days. There is no change in our marriage, we still have loving s.x , she never refuses me. We all understand our marriage is the priority. There are rules we have worked out and put in place. We have only just started this arrangement and I wonder if anybody has experience of this , can it work?
It has given us hope where last week there seemed none. I know it seems impossible but that is the only thing I could think of to save my marriage, I wasn't going to be left to raise 5 children on my own. Please I need some suggestions in the house. Or is there a better way to go about this?