Why did he ask me out again?

Ask Mamalette Why did he ask me out again?
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 3 months ago

About a year ago I broke up with an ex(fiance) due to several issues between us. Recently I ran into him two times within these past 2 weeks. My job was having an even at a public place. Once during the week and another time during the weekend. I attended both functions. Both times I saw my ex. The first time we connected He and one of his guys friends sat at the table directly beside my staff table. I didn't see him but a few guys at my table were telling jokes and super loud and it caught the attention of several people off and on. No biggie since it was a restaurant.
I heard someone calling my name and it was my ex. I was shocked because I hadn't seen him in almost a year. I went over to speak. He asked me to join them in a seat after he hugged me and almost didn't let me go. It got more crowded meaning I had to give up my seat which was from another table he told me to sit on his lap. I did for a minute and he held me close asking me if I missed all this. I told him I did... .During our conversation, he brought up the fact that he bought me an expensive engagement ring and put everything into the relationship. I responded saying so did I. He gave me the same look of disbelief whenever we discussed us putting work into our relationship. He was big on communication but he was also very possessive. But then he would feel embarrassed about feeling jealous or possessive and try diverting the attention away from his behavior. Nevertheless We laughed and talked a bit more then I decided to go back to my table.  This past Friday he asked me to go to an event with him on Sunday. I was shocked but I agreed. He also said he was free Saturday giving me 2 days to he was available. At the end of our conversation he said he was going to check on tickets to the event and let me know. He never got back to me. I ended up texting him to find out what the deal was with the event. Me: "hey. Did you get tickets? Yep/nope?". He responded with a short "hello.nope" What's that all about. Had I not contacted him he wouldn't have contacted me because it was almost near the event time when I finally decided to just find out what the deal was. I almost didn't contact him and almost wished I didn't. Thing is that's what he always complained about with me, I.e not calling him or texting him enough while we were together even though we lived together. Why would he even ask me out? It's seems so stupid.

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