I am about 4 weeks pregnant, the pregnancy was unplanned I already have 4 children ages 12, 10, 7 & 4, I am 36 and my husband is 45. We had decided that we were done having children. Now I am having a hard time making a decision about whether or not to go ahead with this pregnancy. My worry is that  there will be such a huge age gap between this baby and my other children and I am worried I will struggle to cope with another child. Financially and physically. Having 4 children already has put so much stress on me and made me look older than my age. On the other hand I am worried about how I would cope with an abortion, I feel sad at the thought of this. I have never had to go for an abortion before. My husband is the one who recommended it as he also thinks it does not make sense financially and he he feels like he is too old for another baby. My last 2 children were born through CS and I fear i will still need do another another cs. I am angry at myself and my hubby for not being careful. Is there anyone out there who has had a similar situation? What would you advice I do?

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