Mamas and papas in the house please I need your honest opinion on this matter, Advise me as you would do your sister. I am newly separated from my husband. I ran away with my 2 kids for my life, sanity and my soul.. my husband was very abusive but he was a wonderful father. My 4 year old son's birthday is today and his birthday wish is "mum can I see my Daddy, I miss him so much and I don't want to forget him" I tried to reach his father severally to talk his son, but he is not interested. He wants me to come back immediately and he has refused to acknowledge his abusive ways and the need to treat me right. Please is it okay to explain to my son why we can't go back to his father. It's is only wish or should i go back to his father to make his wish come through? Please advise me.