Hello mamas, this is my first time posting here and I need someone else's eyes and views. I've been married 16 years I met my husband when he was 18 I was older than he was then, I was 20. Well we have been through so much in our life time, I've always been there and supported my husband through thick and thin when others walked away, I practically mothered him!! He's always gone from Job to job to pay bills, we have 3 lovely boys and we have always wanted the same thing in life (nice house, family and great jobs). My hubby lost his job 3 years ago and I had to be the man in the marriage 2 years ago then  he finally got a good paid job last year. We finally got all we ever wanted but this was when our troubles started. In July, I noticed huge changes in my husband he became selfish thinking of himself and not family. I found texts on his phone to another woman. It's had been going on for a month, I kicked him out, he came crawling back I forgave him and accepted him back into my life, then I found out in September that he was in contact with her again, again I forgave, then on Sunday I found he still was making contact. I've told him it's over. He has never been like this in his life and he always puts his family first, it's like I am looking at a different man this past months. He wants to make it work and of course I still love him, should I take him back? What should I do to tame him. Please help me?