My husband intends to meet his old school friend when he travels
My husband has a friend that he has known for many years, they went to school together and she lives outside the country. From what I know, she was married, had one child but her hubby is no longer in the picture.
I know that he often talks to her a lot online via whatsapp and fb and occasionally on the phone. They speak to each other almost everyday, even on weekends when he doesn't work. From the sound of their conversation they usually just talk about work, politics, movies, music and seem to have a good relationship.
I myself have spoken to her before on the phone and I never felt anything bad about his relationship with her until recently. My husband plans to travel to the US on a work trip. Yesterday I was looking through hubbys phone and I saw that they had made plans to meet up when my husband arrives in the US. When I saw the message I became annoyed that my my husband didn't mention this to me, he is leaving tomorrow night. So today I looked for her on facebook and sent her a message asking what exactly were they planning on doing when they met, and why I wasn't told about it. She acknowledged my message and said she will be right back. While I was messaging her my hubbys phone was ringing. It was her trying to call him. She never got back to me and all my other messages did not go through. I quickly go to where my husband is, grab his phone and I saw her messages. She was saying help your wife is fbing me, I dont want to be friends with her. I have blocked her etc. Now alarm bells have started ringing in my head. While I dont have problem with my hubby having female friends, I think there is something very wrong when a female friend doesnt also want anything to do with the wife. I have expressed my concerns to my hubby and asked him to respect our marriage. There is nothing I can do now because i cant follow him on his trip there. What is even upsetting me is my hubby saying that i cannot tell him who to make friends with. What else can I do about this matter?

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