What do I do?

Hello everyone. I was recently married in February. I believe I may have made a serious mistake. I dated my wife for 4 years. She is both the most amazing person in the world and the worst to me. When we first started dating she was hyper affectionate and hyper sexual. She even wanted to have s.x twice in one day and gave me oral in a public garage. She was funny and exciting and made me feel pretty amazing. After several months of dating I realized something wasn't quite right with her. She decided that she didn't like my mother and many of my friends. She would do anything to avoid my mother and misinterpret the nice things my mother would do for her. She would get mad when I would want to see my family saying that I was a momma's boy and was to needy of her. She would get mad when I wanted to hang out with friends with out her. Over time I realized she was always criticizing me and never complimented me. In fact she never praises anything or anyone. Everything is negative about everyone. She says she has always not liked her own mother who never compliments her and always criticized her. So she is projecting that on me....So I broke up with her several times over the years and then would always go back. During one of the breakups I had a fling with a girl at my work. We never had s.x, but I just felt she was amazing and everything that my girlfriend was not. Anyways in the end I got tired of it and went back to my girl. So we got back together and all of her madness eventually continued. So eventually she stopped all affection and rarely wanted to have s.x. Eventually I decided we needed couples therapy. We went to that and seemed to be doing much better. I made clear in the therapy that I did not receive enough affection from her, that I needed compliments, and that she needed to keep our home neat. We discussed these things over and over. In Therapy she kept bringing up that I had cheated on her with the girl from my work. I did not cheat on her I broke up with her and then saw the other girl. So eventually we worked all that out in therapy. Then our therapist got sick and couldn't continue working with us and we stopped going. With all the therapy things were good and I finally thought we had everything worked out and I asked her to marry me. I thought she would finally be happy. But noooo. Now she was always upset and stressed about the wedding and claiming I never helped her. That was not true. I started thinking I had made a mistake, but I just thought when we were finally married she would be finally be happy. Nope. We had s.x twice on our 7 day honeymoon. She turned me down every other day. Since we came home a month ago I have received no kisses and we have not had s.x once. I told her I wanted to clean our home and she always refused She is messy and lazy and always subliminally upset with me for some reason or another. What do I do?