Hello mamas and papas. Please, I beg you all to help me. Help me because I don't even know whom to say this to that would believe me and not mock me. The thing is that I have caught my husband masturbating to a picture of a woman that has p.nis several times now. This last time, he was specifically interested in the "big d.cks" category of a p.rn website. I found that he zooms in on a p.nis picture and getting off to it. We have only been married for two years, and for quite a while now (maybe the past year) he has hardly been interested in making love to me; he always says he is tired, or this or that. We make love sometimes only 3 times in a month. I've tried talking with him, coming on to him more, trying to be more appealing, etc. but nothing helps. I've also tried talking about his habit of watching p.rn and especially the type he watches, and he freaked out even when I voiced my concerns about how he doesn't seem to be turned on by me anymore, but instead by penises. Obviously talking with him isn't working, and he isn't able to or willing to stop, and I'm at a loss as to what to do. If our s.x life was great, I wouldn't be nearly as worried. But the fact that he seems utterly uninterested in me has me concerned.