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Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 4 months ago
Please my follow Mamalettes help me out, I fell in love 12 years ago, it was a lovely one that I never knew it will end, we got engaged, 2 years letter I became pregnant for him but that period he had a fatal accident so he couldn't do anything then, so I had to be patience as he pleaded. My elder sister took me away to stay with her & she took care of me until I put to bed, he do manage to come & visit me even with his condition, it was a secrete between the two families because we have a tradition that if man impregnate a girl & couldn't pay her bride price before she puts to bed, then he doesn't have claim over the child, the child belongs to the girl's father.After 3 months I put to bed my man changed suddenly, his attitude was strange to everyone, I tried all I can to make things but it gets worst by day, he even gave my number to a girl that do call me then & insult me, I went to visit his mum he met me & threw me out, he really humiliated me,but i was still begging him,hoping,waiting & praying he will one day come back 4 me at a time he said i was cheating on him which i never thought of bcos i was stupidly & blindly inlove with him.i went through emotional truma,i was devarstated,i thought i wouldnt survive it but i had 2 4 my baby.i refused any relationship,i rejected siutors.After 6yrs my family & friends started disturbing me 2 get married,then 2014 i met my present husband & we got married Dec 2015,it took me time before i could realy love him bcos i saw all men as devil,but my husband is a gift from heaven,he love me unconditionaly,he is caring & real,now i truely love my husband,i love him so much.by early this year my ex start bothering my life that he wants me back,he said since he left me.his life has being myserable,he has no peace or prosperity,my hubby confronted him 2 leave his wife alone but he blantantly refused,he said he is ready 2 die on the process that am his.he tretening my hubby & am expectant mum 4 my hubby's baby.pls am afraid my is no more finding it funny,this guy is despirate.am confused.what do i do?
