Hello house, please I feel I need to share this because I have been reading a lot about abusive relationships on in here and it seems like everyone is blaming the husband of being abusive just like nobody believed me when I complained of being emotionally and psychologically abused by the woman that was supposed to be my wife, partner, mother, friend, sister etc. This is what I dealt with in my marriage. I was constantly trying to live a life of peace. She was constantly trying to create drama, always trying to provoke me and numerous times tried to make me get into a physical fight with her. She initiated physical aggression numerous times. There was a time she brought out a knife and told me she would stab herself if I tried to leave the house because every time she started her drama then, I would just pack my things and walk out to avoid beating her or doing something close to that because I had sworn never to lay my hands on my woman or any woman at that. She wouldn't let me go. I called the police to file a complaint of being emotionally abused and they laughed at me that I was a joker and that they didn't have time for such things. It took the grace of God for me to get out of that marriage and even till now, she is still giving me problems because she now uses my kids against. She doesn't work, I still give her allowances and cater for my kids still but she still gives me problems. Why do some women do this? I'm trying to learn from my past. Please advise me