Good day mamas and papas in the house. I am the lady that posted yesterday about being married for 7 years and being abused by my hubby. I want to thank you for your kind advice. please help me because I am confused of what to do. the problem now is that I sat him down and talked to him. I told him fighting me everyday in present of our kids is not good for up bring of our kids, that I want us to separate for now that in future if he still interested, he can  come back and renew our wedding vow in court. he said, that our marriage is for better and for worst. Our house rent has expired since March and he is expecting me to pay for the house rent as usual. I have already paid for another apartment because the caretaker is disturbing us and he cares about the embarrassment. The main problem is that he refused to give me my car back. he said that he was the one that picked it up from my brother's house. Yes, he was the one that picked it because i can't drive then and register it with his name..i want to move out but i dont want to leave my car with him. yes, i have 3kids for him becos i thought we can work things out and he will change one day, yes, i saw his charater before all this thinking that he will change. even after i told him that we need to separate for now, he left with my car and have not return till now and no calls. why i stayed up till now is becos my mother in law keeping telling me that he will change and if i leave his wil mock her becos she was the one that push the marriage.. that some of they family stand for him not to marry me then. which i dont want to hurt her but at the sametime i am depressed and a sad woman. i work so hard for my kids future. i run a Entrepreneur program now, and work in private firm and have a business of my own. i dont want to remarry but i want to be happy becos sometimes i tranfer anger on my lovely kids. note. we did not do court wedding. just trad. and church wedding. i need my old happy me back.