Good morning all, this is the lady that posted about the hubby that always threatening her with divorce and 2nd wife, thank you all for your advice, I summoned courage to call him that I want to discuss something with him, he came along with me, we sat down I narrated how I felt and how things has been going on for 3 years, after that he said his own part, so the process he asks me about a c.ndom I kept at edge of the bed why I did that he wants a sincere answer I told him I bought him the moment I suspected he was cheating he was angry that I have the gut to say that , that those of his friends that are messing up their wives still cherish them but his own still accuse him , so on the process he said he is hurt , I told him to say his mind I can't be in a house were we are not taking to each other , if he is not interested he should say it out , he said can't u see it. Honestly I was angry I told him to do it in a proper way so that I can be free, he said I do fight him that he loves and respect me , he pampers me still I don't appreciate it maybe that's the hand he gave me , that his friends said u can never please a woman , anywhere he is always running to meet me at home , on the process he said when I look at him that he is no longer love me , if I like I should mess up , if I like I should stay in the house if I don't want coming to his shop , I think he is becoming stubborn, he said am always thinking negative tins by saying I had a dream where he married I should just look at , I have always suspected him different female numbers he used male name to store it since then I see him as a cheat , he said I don't trust him or believe him, that I need to be talked to , I think marriage is all about sleeping with a man , this man made me not to believe him anymore and he always tells me he is a good and best man for me , I can't trust him even if I haven't caught him red handed but the things I see on his phone like clearing chat and storing a female number with a male gave me reason not to , he said now my father disturbs on phone everyday calling him that he wants to see me , I think he has Ego saying he asked me a question am not answering is what makes men to beat a wife as we are talking now then I gave him a serious warning that if he tries that again he won't find it funny and I won't give him such chance , he kept quiet , am tired of the whole situation he still has pride.