Please, I need advice. I have this old best friend, we have been friends for 8 years. She got a boyfriend and married 3-4 years ago. Me and my friend had a fight around the same time they were dating in 2013. I felt replaced by him and I was immature back then. He only knows her side of the story. He witnessed her crying from me back then. I said sorry, we worked it out and everything was fixed between us. They eventually moved out of state once married in 2014. I've only met the guy 4 times so I don't really know him. Since 2015, there have been no fights between me and the friend. I've grown up and realized my mistakes from the past, so has she. We are working on getting back to being best friends. They visit here every now and then(twice a year). I told her I'd like to visit her place and she agreed. However, the husband is having a problem with it. He says he isn't comfortable with me visiting on my own and says to bring a friend. I would've liked to go by myself so it would help us become closer friends and I never see her but he still insists on bringing someone. He says he's worried I will start something with my friend due to the past(2013) even though my friend has told him I have changed.  Also, my friend hasn't added me on social media for over a year. She says it is because of her husband. She says he is not comfortable about us being close again even though both of us want to be close again. She has tried telling her husband the positives of our friendship but still nothing. Thoughts about the husband's behavior and how should I handle this? I did find a friend as a last resort but it's not really something I'm happy with as it loses the main point of the trip.