I have been married for almost 2yrs now with a one yr old son. My husband has a very good job. His an only son and his mother has been staying with us since we married. Now my problem is that my husband hides everything from me. The only thing we share in common is the same bed. Every wifely role like cooking, stocking the house, buying things for our son, following up on his projects and all is done by his mother not until recently when i had to involve my family and a priest before i started cooking in my home. His mother tells him how much to give me, she knows how he earns. At some point he got a card from the bank and gave it to her saying it was for houseneeds that i should meet her for the card and password if i need anything for myself and the baby but i didnt accept the arrangement. His work keeps him out of the home for two weeks. When hes back home. He will be out with her in the sitting room up to 12am sometimes later than that and when we are finally alone. All he does is chat chat chat. With all kinds of ladies from divorcees, to small under 16 girls, etc. The content of the chats when i check through his "CBN secured" phone is very disturbing . Our bedroom very much lacks privacy as he insists we shouldnt close the door and his mums room is just opposite. She walks into our room without invitation. And the irony of it is that he locks her room for her. We have three cars. The last one was bought wen the baby came. Immediately his mum took over the car and even called me a golddigger over it. I use taxi and napep to run around most times or borrow my dads car. I quit my job when i took in on his request. I have been trying to get a job. But none is forthcoming. And its kind of difficult for me because he has refused me leaving the baby with his mum or putting him in a creche. He more than capable to set me up in a business but hes not even thinking of it till his mum stamps it. I forfeited my masters scholarship in canada because the baby was still about 4months. This marriage wasnt forced. We dated for 3years before marriage. He was living in a miniflat then. I feel so bad. Other see me and thing am enjoying cos i love to smile. But i know the pains i carry in my heart. Now am so emotionally frustrated in this marriage. I have been praying. Crying to God for a change. I just need your words of encouragement advice and prayers

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