He thinks he is making all the money and I am just using his money

Ask Mamalette He thinks he is making all the money and I am just using his money
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 2 months ago

Good day house, please I need your help on this. I am a full time mom, our son is 10 months old and I do all the housework, including cooking, cleaning, paying bills, shopping for groceries, etc. When I tell my husband at the end of the end that how I feel tired from all the works, he tells me that I don't do anything at home everyday and he thinks all the house works are not suppose to take much time. He thinks he is making all the money and I am just using his money. He told me to obey him and no complains about taking care of our baby and doing all the housework since it is my responsibility. I feel really hurt after hearing his words. I feel he doesn't appreciate what I do. Last night, I can't help to fight with him for what he said. After the fight the next day, he sleeps in, and I still have to wake up at 4am to care for my baby. Sometimes, I feel living with a man like this is desperate. I understand he is working hard to make a earning, but I need him to understand being a housewife and a mom is very hard either. When I told him this, he thinks I am complaining. How do I make him appreciate and understand?

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