Good Morning, Please help me o. My fiance and I are planning towards getting married by August. The challenge I have is that I'm not really convinced if he is really matured or not. On scale of 1-10, I will give him 4. He is really really close to his Mummy and siblings, which is affecting our relationship. I don't want to get really close to them because his immediate younger sister is disrespectful. His mother wants his immediate younger sister to take an active role in our wedding, which I feel he is okay with. His younger sister has started planning for our wedding too (getting vendors and estimate cost). It appears to me that they feel I want to dupe him or something. Please Mamalettes, how can I know if he is really matured. Is it okay to tell him that because he will pay for my gown, make up, doesn't mean we have to use vendors his sisters will bring. I hope this won't continue when we eventually Marry. I wish we can talk about it, but I don't know how to start such conversation and not look like an intruder. Please help. No insult please.