Hello house, I beg of you all that you do not judge me but that you kindly advise me on the crucial matter. I have a family friend I stay with in Abuja because I school in UNIABUJA, and I don't like going home often because of the long distance so I just stay with my family friends. This my family friends are very rich and the man takes good care of his family but his wife is not a good woman. His wife is cheating on him with a small boy in my school. I have caught them together twice but she told me he was working for her on something but me I did my findings and I found out out the boy is one of the gigol*s in school because we have a lot of them here. This has been going on for close to a year and I have kept it to myself but to make matters worse, this woman isn't bothered, she doesn't treat the man well, she travels up and down, she just doesn't care about the man and the man is very nice. In January when I returned to their place from holiday because I went to my house in Calabar, I noticed the woman wasn't around so I asked the woman where his wife went and he said well she traveled for Xmas and she's yet to be back. I could tell the man was lonely because their children are hardly ever around so I started keeping him company, chatting with him, hanging out with him and all that, then we started developing feelings for each other as we mistakenly kissed on one of our trips. The thing is I am in love with this man, I want him badly and I don't know if it is okay to say I want to be his second wife even though his first wife isn't worth being called a wife. The man said he is willing to marry me as a second wife once I am done with my school and he would fly me abroad for my Masters and maybe have me stay there permanently and I would come home for visitation only. We have never been intimate, it was just one kiss but I love him and I know he loves me too. My parents would never approve of it tho and his wife might kill me if she finds out. Please mamas, help me here, what should I do?