Hello mamas and papas in the house. Please I need you all to advise me, I want to know if all these sighs show that my hubby is cheating on me. My hubby and I have been together for 5 years and he has never cheated on me till now. I found a pair of ladies knickers and panties amongst my clothes, I don't have kids yet so it couldn't have been kids in the house playing tricks on me and it only me and my hubby that stays in the house so I am wondering how another woman's undies got into my wardrobe. My mum thinks I'm blowing things out of proportion because the knickers and pants aren't "affair" worthy. Please mamas, how would you approach this kind of situation without sounding like you are accusing your hubby of cheating. I just want to know what's going on. If he is having an affair, why? I don't mind if he no longer has feelings for me, or whatever, likewise I will hold no grudge. As he would've done it for a reason. I just want to know how these knicker and pant got here and what's going on.