Mamas please help me o, I’m in a relationship that everyone thinks is the one for me but I don’t know how to tell them that the person everybody wants me to marry forced himself on me. Before I met him, I was a V, I had never slept with any man before, I’m 23 years old but my parents are already pressuring me into marriage. My first time was horrible, I can’t even remember it because it was as if I was drugged or something, I slept all through the whole thing. Since he had his way with me, I felt used like no man will ever want me, I grew up in a family of 3 girls were my both sisters married as Vs and their husbands now adore them, I feel my case would be different if i leave this guy now to marry another man because which man would love me after i have been damaged. These are the thoughts that have been in my head for over a year now that i have been dating this my guy, he works in a bank, he makes it his duty to see me every weekend out of which he forced himself on me and acts like he didn’t know what came over him afterwards. He’s like a saint to everybody, He looks like someone that can’t hurt an ant. When you see both of us together you would say we are the perfect couple and that nothing can go wrong. I don’t know how to tell my parents that I can’t continue with the marriage plans. Our introduction ceremony is in 2 weeks and i’m scared. Please how do i tell my parents i’m not a V anymore?
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