Good day house, please I need your advice on this. I met a guy on Facebook, he sent me message saying he liked my pictures and asked for my number. I looked at his profile and nothing showed me that he was married, no pictures, he wasn't in a relationship so I thought he was single. He would come to my house, I will cook for him, we even used to go out at night. He told me I was beautiful. He would do things for me, he even used to leave his clothes in my house so I fell for it. I started to have feelings for me. Then we started to sleep together. This weekend I had not heard from him so I sent him a message asking if he was coming to my house. The reply I got made me confused. The message "who is this and who are you looking for?" So I answered, saying it's me and thinking maybe I sent it to the wrong person. I didnt know I was chatting to his wife, she now replied that it is his wife and mother of his 2 year old child. I was shocked I didnt know what to do. I sincerely did not know he was married and feel bad for his wife.  I know that if it was me that my husband was cheating on, I would be upset. I am angry at him for lying to me, I dont want to me another woman’s nightmare and I dont believe in cheating. This is for men out there, if you dont want to be married then leave your wife or get a divorce. Why stay married and fool us single girls out there. I didn't want to date a married man, I just wanted to date the single guy I thought I was seeing.