Should I tell my hubby?

Ask Mamalette Should I tell my hubby?
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 1 month ago

Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on how to handle this. I am a married woman in my early 30s, I've been hanging out with a guy now for several months, and at first I was certain we were just friends. I met him through a group of my friends, and we hit it off as friends. I can be myself with him, and we enjoy each other's company. I was having fun with him because I thought it was friendship only, but recently, I was suspecting that he was interested in being more. He started to ask me to hang out with him more one on one and would try and gradually make moves on me, like grab my hand, etc. My husband knows him as my friend and he is fine with it because this guy has come over like 2 times to my house, he even helped my hubby with his business because he is a business development manager. Well, he recently confessed his feelings to me, and now has been really moving forward on things. He's tried to kiss me and is just more romantic in the things that he says to me. He contacts me almost on a daily basis and wants to spend a lot of time together now. I feel like he keeps pushing to move things forward romantically / physically, and honestly, I enjoy his company and friendship, but I'm not sure that I feel anything more because I am married and I love my husband dearly. I was attracted to him, but for some reason, I really just don't feel that into it. Please, how do I end it? If he stops coming to my house, my husband would suspect something went wrong, please, should I tell my hubby?

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