Should I take the opportunity?

Ask Mamalette Should I take the opportunity?
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 3 weeks ago

Good day Mamalettes and papalettes. Please I need a candid advice from you all. I am 28 years old, been married for 2 years now and TTC since then. Last year, we discovered the fault was from my hubby and we have Opt for series of treatment since then but not even 1% success have been achieved. We have treated low sperm count, infections even hormonal imbalance, yet no show. Now I got a full funded opportunity to take up my masters degree abroad(USA) and possibly settle there afterwards. It's going to take atleast 2 years before I can visit Nigeria if I should take the offer. But thinking of my husband's condition and my 2 years marriage without a child, I find it difficult to make a decision. Please note that I don't have the intention of leaving my husband because of his condition, I love him way too much to think that. Also my husband's job is a contract one and they have not gone to work over a year now so we are struggling financially, we are staying at his family house with his parents since our marriage and am yet to get a job after NYSC. I am also confused on how else to go about his treatment because if after a year treatment and no success, then there is no assurance that his condition will improve even in 2years time. I don't know whether to take up the Opportunity then make arrangements for him to come over once I settle down a bit or to continue my TTC journey here while hoping for a better tomorrow. Please advice a confused Mamalette. Thanks

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