Good day house, My mom has been with her boyfriend for about 6 years. He's actually our neighbor next door. Since the beginning of their relationship, until now, she has complained about basically the same stuff and nothing changes. I am 24 and I live with her. Pretty much everyone in our family has died including her friends. My dad died 7 years ago and my mom and him were married for 30 years. Her boyfriend's wife died 6 months after my dad died so there's some common ground for them. Her boyfriend lives with his grown adult son in his house. His son doesn't work, and smokes all day and drinks - he's an alcoholic. He claims he can't work because of health reasons. His son doesn't want my mom around and she's not welcomed at their house. Her boyfriend pay's all of the son's bills. When he's at home, he stays at his house and doesn't come over to our house. He acts like a complete stranger. When my mom calls him, he answers and gets mad like she's bugging him. Sometimes my mom calls his phone and lets it ring 3 times before she hangs up so he can have enough time to run into another room and answer it away from his son. He never spends time with my mom except at night. He has a sister in law that manages a doctor's office that he works at. I also started working there and she's also my boss. My mom thinks he's in love with her because his disposition is different around her. She has helped him out throughout he years and he's extremely loyal to her. He practically caters to her and he thinks she wouldn't know what to do without him. He would rather jump and do stuff for her and be around her than be with my mom. Last week at work, she (his sister in law) asked him where he was Sunday (which he was with my mom), and he hesitated to answer her, it was as if he felt she was putting him on the spot, so he lied to her and brought my mom into it. All she wanted to know was is where he was Sunday because he didn't go to her house like he usually does. But he acted like he couldn't tell her he was with my mom. So afterwards I told my boss he was with my mom sunday.  should i stay out of it?