Mamalettes, your advice is needed here. I have been with my hubby for 12 years and he doesn't work, he has been in and out of jobs for some time now.We have three beautiful kids, I swore to never have kids from more than one man. I told him he had to sit up while I was pregnant or I find my level because I'm tired and wont continue like this... Things are still the same we separated like three times during the relationship all due to finance, but I genuinely love him, maybe so much because he is my first. Now, I quarrel with him all the time and all he says are things like 'i cant do this alone or what are you doing or I'm tired of this ' constantly angry, I even avoid going home sometimes..I am so tired, he says things will improve but how long.. My question: should I leave him or not. Please I will appreciate mature responses please..thanks..