Good day mamas and papas in the house, please I need your help on how to handle this matter that I am sure would ruin my marriage if my husband finds out because he is a very inpatient man. The thing is I Just found out I am pregnant with my second child and it's not for my hubby.  We haven't made love in several months, because his pastor warned him to abstain from making love to anyone that s.x has been hindering him from progressing in life. I couldn't hold myself longer than 2 months, I was really starved by my husband and it was making me depressed so I made love with my neighbor who is a young corper. I feel terrible and can't cover this up. How do I break the news to him. I don't want to do a D&C. Has anyone here been in my shoes before? How did you relay the news to your spouse, should I involve my family in this. Please help me because we don't have any kids yet and I have been TTC for 4 years.