Good day house, advice is needed please. My sister started seeing a Man 10 yrs her senior at Xmas time, she is 43.
From the get-go, I had a feeling about him and not of the good kind. Charismatic and seemingly financially successful, my sister said he makes her feel safe and secure and that she's so lucky to have met a man like him... all the while, he makes me feel like she and my family are being lied to. I had serious doubts regarding him, his profession, over the top success stories. Meanwhile, he doesn't have a fixed address and is staying with my sister at her apartment, I told my sister of my sister of my suspicion and she told me I was just being jealous. After a few weeks of exhausting amateur private detective work, I have uncovered quite a few untruths, including surprise, surprise, he's not a Barrister, nor was he ever a lawyer or solicitor. He didnt even attend the universities he claims to have had, nor has he ever made a million Naira on a case as he claimed. He is definitely a liar. Here's my dilemma, I want to tell her, so does our other sister and a mutual friend however my Mother doesn't want to. What do I do? Approach him first? Tell her myself, stage a family style intervention, or perhaps, do nothing