Good day house, please I need advice from you all and hopefully this doesn't sound too weird. I am 43, married to a very beautiful woman who is in her late 20's and we have a child together. My problem is that I am currently on medication that makes me not have the urge to make love. I don't even get morning wood anymore. Compounding that is 1. our schedules don't line up as I get up early to workout, work long hours then go to bed early and 2. my wife has put on a good deal of weight, mostly in mid section and I just don't have the urges to make love to her. On one hand she is pretty conservative and religious but she has a pretty strong s.x drive and can be pretty wild sometimes, more so than what someone who knows her would expect. I am not sure I satisfy her most of the time anyway. Although I am not sure I would be ok with it, I am curious what her response would be if I said she can find another guy to meet her needs. Should I do it?