Should I ASK THEM

Ask Mamalette Should I ASK THEM
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 18 hours ago

Good day house, please I need help. Well, I have two great parents. They love me very much, they've given me anything I ever wanted, and I have great uncles, aunts, grandparents, etc. But, I could never find baby pictures! Just from age 2 and up. My parents always said they couldn't afford a camera, good enough for me...but I was filling out an application for university abroad  (I'm starting late), and I was looking for documents, and I found out I was adopted. I did not believe it at first. Still..I didn't believe it. I decided to go back to the box.carefully hidden in my father's old stuff in his wardrobe, all the way at the top, covered with old clothes and dust. I only found it because I was specifically looking for a box. Pictures of my birth mother and more documents verifying my adoption were in the box. I just started crying. I don't know why. I just felt like a stranger in my own home. I felt like an outsider. I was overwhelmed. This was yesterday. Right now I don't know if I should approach them my adopted parents? I feel like they didn't want me to know. I don't want our relationship to change. As far as they are concerned, they think I think they're my parents. How will they act once they find out I know? I just feel like telling them I know will make them unhappy because they probably wanted me to find out another way. but I want answers. What to do?

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