Good day house, please I need advice. I have a bit of a dilemma at the moment and it's affecting my life. I met this man in April this year, it was amazing. He had a good job, a home and well because no one is perfect he had some issues with an ex wife which they split 3 years ago. She's a control freak and would do anything to hurt him, even keeping the kids from seeing him. He had to move out of his place and couldn't get another one soon so after only 2 months of being together he basically moved in with me. The problem now is that he's not helping with rent or food stuffs. He helps around the house as the handy man every now and then, but as a single mum I'm struggling to get by everyday trying to accommodate an extra person. I love him. He says he does too but.. I've never felt so undesired, we are rarely intimate. Just feel like an option for him rather than him wanting to be a part of my life. I don't know what to do. Whether I should ask him to leave. Or wait longer. I don't know how to approach it. I've asked him about why we are not intimate like we used to be and he says he's stressed out and has a lot on his mind.