Hello house, please help me here. I have been dating this woman for years now but she has a relationship she doesn't want to leave. The thing is, I can't even understand her lately. she says she wants to just be friends with me one minute but then flirt with me heavy and wants to have s*x the next. I still love her but she recently told me she doesn't love me anymore she just cares for me. That was the main reasons we decided to be friends but she keeps switching between acting like a friend and acting like a lover. For the past week though she had been acting very distant to me and it has given me the strength to end our friendship/relationship. Now she feels sad but I don't want to be in that cycle anymore. At the same time, I love her so much and I keep thinking that if we were in a regular relationship maybe things would be different. That's something she always says but she won't break up with her boyfriend because he had helped her when she was going through a bad time. I know she is going to try to contact me again and I need to resolve to leaving her alone. I keep getting nagging thoughts about her though do any of you know how to stay strong in this situation? Also I feel disgusted in myself for even engaging in this relationship. I won't do this again. Sorry if any of this is confusing to you all but please help a brother out.