I have had several reasons to think that he's cheating.

Good evening. Kindly post and keep anonymous.I just want to share my experience and know if I'm at fault in any way. My husband sometimes has to go to Lekki for business and we stay on the mainland. Because of this, he lodges in hotels and sometimes sleeps at his friends that stays around there. I have had several reasons to think that he's cheating. We have had some issues in the past and we didn't sleep with each other for about 6 months. We moved on from this or so I thought. Things became ' normal' and lovemaking was as frequent as can be. About 2 months ago, he gave me his phone. Lo and behold was a chat on his WhatsApp asking a girl to meet up with him at his hotel room in Ajah. I confronted him and he said was sorry . But his movements became unpredictable. I would call severally when he goes on his trips, he wouldn't pick. Always one story or the other.. His phone was on silent, he was sleeping bla bla bla. Whenever, he's around he would always find a reason to be out of the house and he won't be back till about midnight. I spoke to him about him and he started patronizing me telling me how lucky he was to have me as a wife. As our wedding anniversary was fast approaching, he even mentioned that he would like us to celebrate it with a few friends. The date was June 23rd. A few days to the day, he said he had to go for business.On the D day, he called me and prayed. Intact you would think he was a General Overseer of a church. I appreciated it. He came back a few days after. One thing I noticed was that lovemaking reduced drastically and my suspicion rose. Two nights ago, he left his phone charging and I checked. I confirmed my suspicions and I realized he wasn't cheating with just one lady but about four of them. One of the SMS he sent to his friends read ' Ray why now? I'm stranded with a babe'. That was sent at about 1:20am on June 23rd, our anniversary! Which means he slept with another woman and yet called me on that day praying. Another SMS asking someone ' to control that Calabar girl to him'. I also saw that he was sending monies to different girls yet he's been complaining of being broke lately. Anyway, in the midst of our conversation the next morning while I was getting dressed for work I mentioned it to him gently and he flared up asking why I checked his phone. He walked out of the room and when I tried talking to him, he wasn't listening so I left. To cut the long story short, he didn't sleep in the room yesterday and he hasn't been eating either. I intend leaving him to himself. My deepest fear is catching an STD or worse still HIV because of the various partners he has. I'm glad I saw through his deceit.