Good evening Mamalettes. Please I need your advise. My marriage is 2 years, we were TTC for more than a year before God finally blessed us with a baby girl. I had my child through CS. All the while i was trying to recover, going to postnatal clinic with my baby, my husband will never offer to carry us. I would come back and he will never ask how i feel or what did the doctor say, rather when i talk about the pains, he will say what is it that i am going through. That what is painful there. This brings tears to my eyes. Its been two months since i gave birth. I noticed his constant calls and chat with a girl that he said it was his ex girlfriends friend. They chat everyday. I asked my husband for money to buy somethin for the baby. He said he doesnt have meanwhile i saw an alert on his phone when he transferred money to this lady. He has been acting non challant. If you ask him for money he will say he does not have. I actually have a shop am running but i want to wait till 3months till i start. He is saying i must not take his child to shop till after a year, but when i ask for money he will say he doesnt have. Even called his sisters to report me and was telling them stuffs. He nags at everything. He has been making excuses for coming home late. I noticed the girl sent him her picture today and they were chatting. He calls her everyday and deletes it. I tried to check the chat later but he has deleted it. I dont know how a mere friend will be sending married man picture of her look today. He claims there is nothing between the both of them. I am trying to concentrate on my child and overlook this things but its hard. Its really tiring. Please i need your advice