Please hide my ID and notify wen posted. Good day Papas and Mamas in the house. I will appreciate your candid advice on this. I have been married to my husband for six years now with two sons. I teach in a private school where the pay me 20k and hubby has a good job. January this year we discussed on what and what to do to move told next level. I told hubby I will like to start a business since wat d pay me is little. He objected to it with d reason dat he does not have money for it. On my own I now decided to do contribution which I use my salary to do (20k) monthy for 10 months. Mean while hubby gives me 50k for monthly up keep which ranges frm Nepal bill, filling d gas, Gotv subscription, fuelling d gen and every other thing needed in d house. We are leaving with a house help and hubby's sister. It has not been easy for me cos after buying all d necessary things in d house. I wil be left with little money to buy things like meat and other things wen d need arise. So I collect my contribution in July, I ve seen a shop now and d shop rent is 90k. I told my hubby how I saved money and ready to pay for a shop and also needs his little assistance. He did not say anything. After a night he told me to pay in d money into his account. Dat he doesn't like business. I should continue with my teaching and also do d contribution next yr. I ve tried to talk with him on dis but he not listening. He said he owns me and everything I have. I ve really deprived myself many things dis yr to do dis without knowing is d beginning of my problem. He is now insisting I must do d contribution next yr. How do I handle dis? Should I pay in dis money into his account for peace to reign.