Good day to you all in the house, I have been with my wife for 5 years now. She was my first girlfriend and I fell head over heals in love with her that I married her after a while. A year ago we moved into our own house which is big enough to raise a family in, she went to the doctors to get on our IVF treatment because we have been TTC for about 4 years without any result. It was on Sunday that I found out she has been having an affair for around 3 months. When I confronted her, she declared that she wanted to get caught so we could have the 'talk'. Lots of things came out in the conversation but then the bomb dropped! She doesn't want a baby! My heart shattered. Everything we have planned and worked for gone in those 5 words. I have spent millions of Naira on this IVF treatment and she tells me she doesn't want a child and her way of telling me is by having an affair with another man for 3 months. Where do I go from here. I love her and can't imagine my life without her but a baby is all I have ever dreamed of and I want a child of my own. Please how do I go about this, how do I get her want to have a baby with me?