Good day house, I need your help here, Me and my husband have been married for a three years now, we are both 28 years old and obviously got married pretty young (at 25). Last year he started playing computer games online with his friends, and since then he has been playing every day for hours, before going to work and after, and I think he is quite addicted to it now. At first when it all started I felt sad and angry, he wasn't paying any attention to me nor to our child and I kept crying every night when going to sleep. I tried talking to him about it, but he kept saying I was making a big fuss out of nothing. With time I got used to it, but my feelings for him have changed, and I don't feel the same way as before, although I still love him because he is my husband, but we do fight often. So, a few months back a guy at work was flirting with me and after a while I asked him if he wanted to hang out not knowing that he had a girlfriend. He said no because he was in a relationship and I was married. But we agreed we would behave like if nothing happened, that everything would be normal, without any embarrassment. After that happened I was at home for a few months, not working, and last month I went back to work. When I saw him it was all weird, the whole situation, and we couldn't even say hi to each other (I was a bit embarrassed), but the few times I saw him, every time he was looking at me and I caught his eye. If he doesn't want anything with me, why does he keep looking and turning around to see if I'm looking at him? I'm confused because I really like this guy, but I am married at the same time. I know that my husband loves me, but he doesn't want to understand that I need more attention and need to spend time with him, because if he paid more attention to me I wouldn't be liking this other guy. Should I say something about it to my husband? What do you think my colleague thinks of me now? Perhaps I scared him off, and in a way I'm glad it came out this way because I really don't want to cheat on my husband.