My Dear Mamalettes in the house please post this for me cause I really don't know what to do concerning my elder brother that will be 40 this June, I and my late sister has been planning to get him a wife but I lost her to the cold hands of death two years ago,my brother is slightly mentally retarded but very caring and sympathetic to we the younger ones but most it pains us that he can't even speak to a woman boldly to try his luck to get a wife,my mum keep insulting him that his younger ones are always ahead of him ,that he is not worth being her first child,I pity and cry for him each time he calls with tears or anger to report our mother to me,when I call her she will ask me to invite him to come and live with me in my husbands' house ,our father is late,he has been an encourage ment to us despite he is not too sharp like his mate.Please tell me how to go about convincing a lady to accept him the way he is,he can't remain single all his life,he is like a father to the family please give steps to take,thank you to you all,I don't joke with this forum,I am proud of you all.