Good day everyone. I have been a follower of this group and I've learnt a lot as well..I've been married to my husband for a year and some months now..There's this particular girl that's close to my husband,that she can even call him at 12am to come pick her up to her whenever she is stranded(we don't live in Nigeria)and whenever he talks about her, he presents her issues with so much interest in him and also about her in her way that he can vouch for her and am not comfortable with that,he is even very close to her in public than with me,he can laugh and joke with her in public but can't do that with me.I and my husband can be in the car and he wouldn't bring up any discussion but once she enters the car his mood changes.he becomes excited and all.He doesn't see anything wrong with anything she does and it makes us argue most of the time.When I argue with my husband he can keep malice with me for a whole week or even report me to his whole family members,I do everything in the house but my husband doesn't assist me with anything not even to pick a pin even when am sick.If he comes home and the dishes are in the sink he just squeezes his face and i only leave the dishes on the sink when am sick or very tired after work but hubby will wash his plate that I served him food with and leave the rest for me in the sink..even when I don't eat he doesn't even persuade me or pamper me to eat when am sick.he just go about his business.,I really want to know if am really in a marriage or am just married to someone who doesn't love me..Thanks