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Good morning mama's, please I need your advice before I miss behave, my husband lost his job since Dec 2014, then I was 5 month pregnant with my first child and since then have been the one responsible for the house keep, we needed to change the location of where we were staying because of my work and the distance is much as have been staying with my parent after I returned back to work, will stay with them during the week and go back home on Friday evenings, have been doing this all this while with my baby and always take my baby with me to the office, cause I can't afford to put him in a creche, with all the stress and the fact that my parent moved to their house, I had to agree with my husband that we need to relocate to where will be convenient for me and my baby, I became pregnant along side and the stress increased, while sourcing for the money to get the apartment, my husband went to his mummy, but she said she has no money which we never believed, I had to agree with my husband to give my son to his step sister, I trusted her more than any one in his family, I told MIL when she asked me about my baby when she saw that he is not with me, I told her he is my own Sis because we know telling her that he is with the step sister is going to be war (the step sister is from the father side) but alas she was furious about it and commanded me to go and being the boy even when I told her that my sister had enrol him to school, I had to call my husband to come and meet her and as they where discussing and my husband said there is no money for now that was why we made the decision, she told my husband to go and steal, well I later arranged the money by God's grace and got an apartment, the money we used to move our thing to the new place was given to my husband by my mum, my husband refused to tell his mum about it hoping he would still get money from her to balance up what we were still owing the agent that helped out, I insisted that he should inform his immediate Sis that we had moved because she lived close to where we were staying before and if she got to find out later it might cause problems for me, he called her the very day we moved and told her that she should not tell my MIL about it for now, then one afternoon my husband called and told me that one of his step sister (from the mother) that I stayed with while we were still trying to get an apartment said my husband immediate Sis told her that my husband has money and that he was hiding it, this is some one that has not been working for over 2yrs, and the worst part of it is that she go about saying that to everyone, have been thinking of calling her to give her the piece of my mind, and also since then my MIL stopped answering my calls guess she told her we moved before my husband did, cause my husband later told his mum we move because she was expecting me to come visit her and I intentionally didn't go because she is going to ask about my baby and it will bring about another quarrel if I told her he is not with me yet, my husband told her that I went to the apartment we got to clean the place, I'm really worried, please tell me how to handle this people.
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