Good day mamalletes and papalettes, please I need your advice concerning this issue. Am a 38yrs single lady who have suffered marital disappointment of 6yrs(friendship/courtship) after he impregnated another lady. Although have met one or two other men after then but for one reason or the other it didn't work out. Ever since then have decided to wait on the Lord. June this year made it 10yrs that I broke up with my ex (who is still desperately looking for me to marry, which can NEVER be possible). Thank God have been able to move on. The issue now is that 3years ago, a sister introduced a christian brother to me.I and the brother got talking in order to know each other better, he told me some things about himself in which I told him exactly the truth about myself of those things he told me about himself like his age, state of origin, his position in his family, where he works, his church, his like and dislikes etc. 3months later he said he wanted to come and pay me a visit at home for the very first time (Note: I live alone). I tried to convince him to allow us see in my church but he refused, that it must be in my house then I agreed with the condition of no sex, no kissing, romance and all sort which he agreed as we are both christians. So after church that sunday, I got home prepared for his coming, dressed decently, all sensitive parts of my body well covered. Opened all windows. Despite being that conscious, the brother tried to force himself on me in my own house. At that point I told him I am a virgin and if he tries to disvirgined me against my will, the God that I serve will strike him dead in 7days, that was when he let go of me and said I should have told him before now. Since that time I vowed never to bring any man into my house again until I am very sure of him. I vowed keeping my virginity till my wedding night. Now men are seriously coming to me for marriage, whenever they request to know where I live I turn them down suggesting we see in church, at a friends house, my parent's house or better still in an eatry for now, but most times they are not usually confortable with it especially the matured ones. Have prayed to God to remove the fear of this past experience I had in my apartment with that brother from my mind but it seems impossible. Please help me with advice or suggestion of what to do. Is there anything wrong in still meeting them outside my house before I fianlly make up my mind before taking whoever am sure of to my place, parents and pastor? Cause I share this with an older friend of mine who is happily married and she said it is not right that it could scare away men especially the matured serious minded ones. Please I need you advice. God bless you all.

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