Pls I need an advice especially papalettes In d house My husband look responsible and innocent but little did I know that he was a great pretender. I never tot of it one day that he can ever cheat on me few years ago my husband was having an affair with a Lady everyone in my area knows and even his colleagues at work as well no one cares to tell me so the lady called me and told me everything about her n my husband. My husband is a great pretender and liar.initially he disagreed and later accepted the he was cheating on me .and promise me that it will never happened again .fast forward to this year I found out that they were still communicating but my husband kept changing her name on his phone to different male names if she calls my husband will not pick ,now 2weeks I forgot my phone at home so he helped me to bring it to my office so I noticed that my husband has deleted the girl's numbers on my phone cos I saved it so that I will be checking her updates on whatspp cos I do get info from that like if my husband traveled she will start uploading pix that she's enjoying this place.so I was checking something on my true caller I saw dailed  number with her name with our surname on it as her name that was when I called my husband that what is the meaning of this u deleted ur mistress number on my phone and u now dailed  it again .He started shouting at me that why am I like that,why is it that I don't want him to enjoy his marriage with me ,he's tired of my acquisition . my husband that lied that from his office they sent him for an official assignment for good 8months he was coming home once in awhile until one  day I went to his office and everything was opened that he was not sent to anywhere, I looked at him n said u are a wicked man,he even lied about his monthly income and I beg my friend to check his account and she told me the salary is more than what he told me and every time he keeps saying no money ,he still want to trust n believe him ,he will be telling me a marriage without trust is nothing but I don't think I can trust him again
  now my question is that am confused cos my husband said all the text messages I saw he did not reply he now said that me am not wise that someone is doing everything to separate us and destroy our home that can't I see.that instead of me to continue TTC so I can be a mother .we have been married for 4yrs now.pls a need an advice on how to handle the issue.

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