Pls help me.. My story is a long one but pls bear with.. It all started when my boyfriend of 4yrs {now my ex} just wake up one day and tell me its over between us I nearly killed myself becau se this guy was all I have then... I met him late 2009 and then he was an ND holder and I'm Nce holder too but fortunate to secure job in an oil company then as a manager so along the line he apply for police form and fortunately he got the job throughout his days in college I helped him with my salaries to the extend that I have to live with one of my female co worker then but immediately he finished his training he called me that his pastor told him we can't marry to cut the story short we go our separate ways so with desperation and fostration in me I met another guy now my husband so immediately I tell him my past he propose marriage to me less than a month then we did introduction so I was unable to study him and know his characters and the worst thing is that this my guy is also a force man {Mobile police} so its distance marriage due to the nature of his work though he comes home every month and spend at least a week so the problem now is that none of his family accept me they said its not yet time for him to marry since he's the only working out of the family of eight and he's in 3rd position and he's 34yrs.. Five has married remain 3 which he include then.. So they said he ought to empower the remaining 3 before he marry... And this my guy has been hot tempered any little thing like may be he's on phone call and our boy of 3yrs is crying the next thing he will do is to pick his phone and started calling both his people and my people that I should leave the house before he come.. If I don't call him for days he will not bother to call.. He once challenge me that I spend anyhow so I have to find something doing and thanks to God I now have a provision store worth 300k.. The problem at hand now is that he only care for his son he no longer give us feeding allowance since Nov last year and I call him yesterday to find out the problem the next thing he told me was "he no longer interested in the marriage" pls what have I done wrong to deserve all this in life and to God who made me I don't cheat.. Pls help me what should I do?