Mama and papa pls help a confused lady. I will be 29 by march, a graduate presently serving. I met this guy in my hometown tho his parent are only working dere not 4m the town he was so kind and caring to d extend dat my sisters like him, he do comes to my house everyday and his very free dere but i neva had an opportunity of visiting him bcos his parent are LiFER (deeper life) but he doesn't really go with dem, this guy pass through many things 4 me like there was a day his mom was us i was actually walking him down to his street and she started shouting at him that he didn't come to church and ask him to come into d car and let them go home right in front of me he told his mom he can't leave me so his tell his mom to leave him and they drove off and me have always be d trouser type. This guy will buy me so things after he might have collected his school fees and ready to go back to school, he even came to lagos to c me but was not d free type dat can go out like dat so he only dodge to come to my str one night to see me all d way 4m Enugu. I was not too at peace with him bcos i heard they end up marrying 4m their church so in 2007 i met another guy 4m my hometown and we started dating neva knew am not going to marry him, i made it known to d other guy dat have started dating someone, giving him attitude but he still call to ask abt my well being . Fast forward to 2012 d relationship ended bcos his sis went to pray and she was told we are not compatible. After d broke up with my town boy, d other guy and i started dating again dat was when we had something together but was not getting what i expected like dat kind of d love he had 4 me then . So i left again 2014 but i left exactly 12months bcos he lied so much and also Beat and apologize. Throughout those period my first bf neva stop calling me but i don't visit him . We started dating again in 2015 dec he doesn't beat even when he saw messages on my phone but will talk to me and i will started crying. So last week i accused him of not calling me 4 2days but we chat online, he begged 4 dat and also told me why he was unable to do dat like dat is not enough 4 me i went as far as telling him if his tried of d relationship dat he should let me know and stop wasting my time that was where my bf flared up and started remaining me of my fuck up like how he wish u neva remember those thing but they keep flashing his mind how bad i treated him in d past, how he could sacrifice his life 4 me, all what have done to him 4 d past 10years, dat how he wish he move on and do d normal thing which is marriage but those past still rings in his heart, dat he so confused on what to do and that we should just let d relationship be d way we are now. he doesn't trust me. He sad tho he still love me but not like those times and if GOD say we could nothing will stop it. Ofcourse i have many admires but i don't even have feeling 4 them @all but am highly in love with my bf . Mama and papa pls help me how will i win back his heart again don't want to lose him to another woman we are so close like i don't think anyone can understand me d way he does. Thanks so much

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