I have been married for 5yrs now with 2 kids, d issue i ve is with my husband he started locking his phone when i asked him why he is locking d phone he said nothing i asked him to give me d password he refused, i suspend that he is cheating on me and when u comfront hime about it he denies, recently he gave me one-of his email password to check something for him and i saw mails he got from twoo i now opened his account from his email and saw many chats he had with girls and he gave they his numbers to add him on whatsapp so they can continue d chats there, when i confronted him about it he first denied that someone is using his password to Chat with girls, i started keeping malice with him from that thursday till on sat morning my MIL came to our house and noticed that i was angry he asked me what d problem was i didnt answer then my hubby now told her that am angry with him since thursday that he has been begging me and i refused, i now opened up and told MIL everything, she was very angry with him and finished him with words she now begged me to forgive him, i accepted and let it go but he still locks his phone, i now told him that since its obvious that he is cheating and didnt want to stop that he will not touch my body again, so since that day i refused him to touch me. Last wk after he travelled and came he wanted to have his way but i told him that since he choose to lock his phone over his wifes happiness that he will not touch me again, he said i should not used that as a condition that he will open his password on 14th of feb i now told him to wait until that day cos i dnt want to die of any disease. Since this yr we have only made love' on 1st jan which is his birthday and he us not boarded about it which only means that he is getting it outside which is why he will choose to protect d girls he is chatting with. I dont know how else to handle this issue cos am getting tired of d hole thing and has started loosing feeling for him. Pls mamas advice me on how best to follow this.