I am so angry at my husband.I am married but feel like a single mother. Last week, I had malaria and was sick but yet I still had to cook, clean, look after the kids and look after husband who is an overgrown child! He told me to rest after I took my medication and promised to look after the children but 10 minutes later our 6 month old baby was crying so much I had to get up  and bring him up in bed with me, then 30 minutes later our second child came in our bedroom and got in bed with me making noise and disturbing. All this while my hubby was playing game on his phone. This same hubby never wakes up at night when I feed the baby, won’t get up early in the morning to help with the children. I can even count how many diapers he has changed since the children came. He goes out all the time and leaves me on my own with the children. The one time I left them with him at home my phone kept ringing with him calling me to quickly come home because the baby was crying. I don\'t like leaving him with the kids as he gets annoyed when they start crying and disturbing him. I have a full time job and no help so the stress is becoming too much. I don’t understand why some Nigerian men feel like looking after the house or children is a woman’s job. Am I wrong to feel this way?