one day he packed my things and throw out of the room

Ask Mamalette one day he packed my things and throw out of the room
Mamalette Support Team Staff asked 2 days ago

Good day mamas and papas. Please I need your advice on this issue bothering me. Myself and hubby with our two kids stay in a 2 bedroom apartment. Initially after wedding, I sleep together with my hubby in a room but anytime we have misunderstanding, hubby will tell me to go out of the room and sleep in the other room, he does this often and often and one day he packed my things and throw out of the room that I shld go and be sleeping in the other room(i ddnt pack my things back to his room) I slept in the other for a period of time, but after a while, I discuss this issue with a friend and she advised that it's not good for us to be sleeping in diff room. I decided to be sleeping in his room again, he ddnt complain but he's not convenient with it. He changed his room key and start locking his room when going out, fortunately for me, I got a spare key to his room unknown to him. I search d room when he left to work, he later discovered I had a spare key, he decided not to lock d door again. We started sleeping together in that room again. But my problem now is that,till Now anytime we have arguments, he tell me to go and sleep with d kids in their room and leave his room for him. What I discovered during this period that I'm always out of his room is that, he make calls till midnight with his girlfriends. And this gives them serious intimacy. He talks freely with them since I'm not there. My question now is that should I leave the room for him and start sleeping alone or I should always go back after any misunderstanding? Our marriage is just 6 years.

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