Dear mamalettes, pls hide my ID and help me post for advice. Im a lady and i work in a school. I have never met one of my parents but she liked me judging from how i relate with her on phone. Severally she wanted to know if i was married, i told her no. Finally she told me she liked me and would love to introduce me to someone for a possible relationship. Lo n behold she did and it was to her younger brother. I met with him, we clicked at first sight. Long story short, a month into the relationship i missed my period, i didn't know what to do. It seemed too early, i told my guy and he was as confused as i was. He wasn't ready for marriage but he was going to support if i decide to keep the baby. I felt bad, but i resolved to keep my child no matter what. One of the days we were talking i asked him why he wasn't ready for marriage cos he works and is of age.. 32. He then made a shocking revelation to me. He was married and is going through divorce. It hurt me that i didnt get to know about that at the time of introduction. I knew i may just be wasting my time staying with him cos he made it clear that even after divorce he will not remarry immediately. I imagined all sorts, why would this be happening to me. If i wasn't pregnant i would have just left but for the sake of my child in the womb i stayed. Few months later, i did what i shouldn't have done. I went through his phone and i discovered this guy is a chronic cheat, since i got pregnant he hasnt spent a dine on me but he sends cash to a girlfriend in school, hooks up with girls every weekend im not with him. I confronted him and he kept asking me what i wanted from him, that we having a baby together doesn't mean he cant live his life. The next day i left him, its just few days now and im really not happy. Please house, kindly advise and keep praying i deliver safely.