Hello house, please help as I am very disappointed at my mother now. My mom and I are really close, in fact over the last year she has been my rock. I lost a baby 3 years ago, I was in my final year in the university then and my mom was great she helped me through it all because the baby daddy didn't care. I'm now 29 weeks pregnant but because of my loss 3 years ago, I worry all the time, my mum is usually the one I go to when the worry kicks in and she always says the right thing and listens to me. I've moved with my boyfriend to a totally different area, although we are not married yet but hubby is working towards it. Yesterday was my mom's birthday. She ended up drinking a whole bottle of wine and getting drunk (which is fine, It is her birthday after all!) the rest of my family and that of my boyfriend were all seated talking and mingling and all of a sudden my mum came out with how I was starting to get on her nerves with getting pregnant without marriage to 2 different men, she said I was burdening her because if this one to goes, she would have to be the one to take care of me and she can't have it. Then she went on to say she's too young to be a grandmother and 'never and doesn't want a grandchild' because they are just going to be a pain to her. My dad told her off for it saying it was out of order and I just laughed it off but inside I could feel the lump in my throat. I had to hold it in for a whole hour before I left. When I got in my car I burst into tears I just cannot believe she said it. Every time I think about it my heart sinks. I'm so so hurt I can't forgive her. Part of me was expecting a text or phone call soon after or today apologizing or telling me she was only joking but I've had nothing. She meant every word. I am so angry, please advise me here.